Today I lost another pound, so now I weigh 170. That means in 6 days I’ve lost 3.5 pounds! Anyway, here’s today’s video.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sn6dZSBpUBQ
And of course, this blog wouldn’t be complete without some awesome advice from Dr. X! So here’s some awesome wisdom on being successful!
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You Are What You Believe!
Your belief system and how you monitor your own thoughts are keys to any weight loss system.
Have you ever finished lunch or dinner only to pick up another piece of food and eat it? Doing this on a regular basis (which seems mindless) programs your body and mind to believe that there is always more to come simply by repeating this ritual. And the end result – you can never achieve the weight loss goals you set!
Another example that needs self-examination: Have you ever cut a piece of pie or cake in half only intending to eat the portion cut and then shortly after go back and eat the other ½?
Here’s what you are doing: When you are cutting that cake in your subconscious mind you already know that you will be getting the rest and you are falsely kidding yourself into believing that the process of cutting off half is doing you some form of good. Countless people fail in their diet attempts strictly from doing this simple but devastating action to the diet.
Actually, it would be better to decide on how much you plan to eat and then eating that entire portion, because then you have a more realistic and visual perspective of the portion size you are consuming.
If you are trying to “diet” and fail by succumbing to additional food or temptation then you are training your belief system in a negative way. And training like this can allow you to let it entwine in other areas of your life. For example, not being disciplined in doing your homework or procrastinating to do a project another day!
The old cliché applies: if you are going to talk the talk then walk the walk. Don’t tell yourself one thing and then not do it! Personally it is worthless in what you say to other people or what you try to have them believe. It is not helping you one bit to tell everyone that you won’t be eating any more cake. What matters is what you do and whether you are doing what you say you will do.
So if you really want to lose weight then lose the weight by being true to your purpose, goals, and most importantly to yourself. If your beliefs do not match your reality then your reality will never amount to more than your real beliefs. Read this again because the secret to success in weight loss, school, work and life lies in that one sentence!
If you believe that your genes or your metabolism are responsible for your over weight condition then that is what you will alwaysbe even though a change in diet and exercise will make a difference. Genes are set and important but environment plays a big role in how the genes express themselves. Change your environment to change your life. If you are “addicted” to Oreos don’t keep them in your bedroom, house or car! Don’t buy them and make sure your access is very limited.
Taking responsibility is one of the hardest lessons in life to learn. If your room is a mess – clean it. If you don’t like your friends find new ones. If you don’t get good grades find help to make them better if you think you want better grades. Life isn’t good because you want someone like your parents, grandparents, friends, boyfriend, girlfriend or siblings to “make you happy.” Happiness is an inside job that starts with you accessing, analyzing and deciding what is important to you and then making adjustments to your habits, behaviors and environment to achieve it! Getting your mind to understand and accept your true reality is one of the biggest hurdles for most people who are trying to make changes in their life. Decide that you want to change yourself to make yourself better, healthier and do so because you want it. You set up your plan, you embrace the plan, you execute the plan and then you achieve the benefits of your plan. It is no different in becoming a good student, a good friend, a good sibling or good person. But no other person can achieve this for you. And here is the question you should really think about: If no one plans to be a failure on their diet why are there so many out there?
Believe you can do it and you will – there is no doubt about that! Success is never an accident. It is planned for and executed. Achieving your ideal body weight can be accomplished the same way!
PS – You can substitute the term weight loss above for any dream, goal or thing you wish to bring into your life and accomplish it!
-Dr. X